This incredible platform has allowed businesses to connect, reach potential clients and customers in vast numbers. The advantages for this social network are endless. However and this is a big however, it in turn also forces business owners to be extroverts or pretend at least and this is where the problems begin.
Extrovert or Introvert?
As part of the business class I teach here at Flourish Sussex Flower School I discuss this idea of being an extrovert or introvert. Many people, my friends including, would probably think I am an extrovert. I appear comfortable with my friends, I like hosting parties and I am confident talking about subjects I feel passionate about. However I do a great deal of masking. I believe this comes from the fact that I was diagnosed with dyslexia when I was six. I spent a lot of time in my teenage years through to my early twenties trying to hide it from others. I was so worried about being labelled as unintelligent, so I hid it from the world and worked twice as hard to achieve exam results.
Although I may appear confident and do have a level of self belief (mainly due to me caring less as I have become older), I also deal with imposter syndrome. The inner dialogue that I have can be exhausting and my worst critic is myself. Sometimes that has it’s advantages. The level of work I produce is probably always quite high, as I am always trying to push myself to be the very best, as if I failed the inner voice would tell me it loudly.
I would like to add to this I am not like this with anyone else. In fact completely the opposite. I would never expect my kids to achieve so much and I am constantly telling them its ok to fail.
So despite the world maybe labelling me as an extrovert, there is no doubt in my mind and in those closest to me that I am an introvert and I am fine with this. But when it comes to running a business I believe it is harder for us introverts.
IGTV, REELS, STORIES, GRID
Can you feel the anxiety rising? As much as Instagram helps businesses it also requires you to ‘put yourself out there’. We probably know ourselves with the businesses that we follow and buy from, we like to be nosey. It’s not enough looking at the product anymore, we want to know a bit about the person behind the business, especially when it’s a small business. We want to hear their voice, see reels, see what they do in their daily lives. We live in a time where small business owners don’t just have to know their numbers, be the creators ,but they have to put their face out there and that is where anxiety, imposture syndrome can stop people from pursuing their dreams or give up on their business all together before its even begun.